What’s Your Story

I graduated from college with a grandiose idea that I could change the world through journalism. Pursuing my dream job, I packed my life’s belongings in my Honda Civic and set out for New York City.

Along the way, I had two distinct emotions. One was excitement because I was moving to the city where anything could happen. The other was complete terror because I was moving to the city where anything could happen!

Why Stories?

Want to know what happened next? Of course you do! Created in the image of God, people are hardwired to love a good story. God, the master storyteller, is writing the story of time––one that began in the garden and is still unfolding today. And He gave us His written Word, the greatest story of all time.

Jesus loved stories, too. When asked why He told stories (or parables), Jesus replied, “You’ve been given insight into God’s kingdom. You know how it works. Not everybody has this gift, this insight; it hasn’t been given to them. Whenever someone has a ready heart for this, the insights and understandings flow freely. But if there is no readiness, any trace of receptivity soon disappears. That’s why I tell stories: to create readiness, to nudge the people toward receptive insight.” (Matthew 13:10–13, The Message)

Stories Serve a Purpose

Stories aren’t just to entertain. They help frame our experiences and bring meaning to our existence. Like Jesus’ stories, our stories can be a powerful way to help listeners understand a deeper truth.

Consider implementing storytelling as a way to share your passion for generosity with others. Then, see who wants to join the conversation.

Elements of a Good Story

For the greatest impact when sharing your generosity story, keep the following storytelling elements in mind.

1. Authenticity. Be genuine and honest. You’re not trying to compare your generosity to others’, impress anyone, or earn acceptance. Doing so only brings pride or shame. Leave it up to God to use your story of authentic generosity in the lives of your listeners.
2. Vulnerability. A compelling story includes vulnerability––the weakness of a character, an obstacle to overcome, or a conflict to be resolved. These are the things that create interest and draw listeners in. Yes, you may feel a sense of embarrassment taking a risk to admit your struggles and bare your heart, but this is what makes your generosity story most powerful.
3. Simplicity. To keep your listeners engaged, keep your story simple and to the point. Be intentional about what details to include. You may love to talk, but too many details can detract from your message or lead the listeners to ask questions that change the subject.

Stories Make a Difference

It may be easier to state the facts and be forthright about your intentions, but the underlying message may be lost. Good storytelling that’s authentic, vulnerable, yet simple takes practice.

Keep in mind your giving story can be a wonderful picture of the gospel lived out, illustrating the very nature of our generous God. For this reason, your story not only has the power to transform you but your listeners as well.

Happy storytelling!